I think it often comes down to atmosphere. I would even imagine them thinking "what the hell are they doing here?". Gay clubs are created for gay men, there is nothing for women there. If you're not promiscuous, it's best to have friends who aren't.Īgain - can't believe how often I must repeat this - it's not about finding a guy only, it's the atmosphere. Of course if your friends are looking to get laid or whatnot, it's a different deal, but I try to have mainly friends who aren't like that.
It only takes a "I'm set, thanks" or "Thank you, but no thank you" and you're good. Occasionally, even for single girls, a guy you're not interested in will approach you, perhaps offer you a drink. In general, it takes a lot for a guy to walk up to an attractive girl. I can't remember the last time that happened to me. Suffice to say you go to a decent bar, you're dressed sexy but not slutty and you're not hideously drunk, the chances of getting "groped" are low. I see what you mean by that, and I imagine it being annoying but I think girls are sometimes exaggerating the "annoyance" of it. I'm in a relationship so I often find clubs very annoying and I dislike being flirted with etc so a gay club would be good for me! I avoid clubs at all costs but when I have to go for occasions etc then I will, unfortunately all my friends are usually out to pull.so it's not the best experience for me. I haven't actually been to a gay club but I do see the appeal. I hate it when people change plans at the last minute, it's not fair on you. and just to be able to relax a bit more on a night.) I just can see how sometimes you would want a break from it. (not that there is anything wrong with straight guys in clubs.
but instead will probably be pretty friendly. with guys who aren't going to grope her/lure over her/hit on her etc. Im not quite sure whats pathetic about a girl wanting to dance/enjoy a night out. I mean, is this remotely common? I don't desperately need to meet a guy to exchange numbers, but at the very least you want to dance with someone or whatever.Īm I alone here? Sorry for the rant, I'm just a bit fed up with this scenarios where I'm spending time getting ready and she's texting me with a change of plans of her own preference. I find the idea of two girls tagging along a bit sad. Obviously her friends want to go somewhere to meet guys, and for us to join them, we're basically the third wheel. It's one of those things they do on Sex and the City which is not actually as "fabulous" as some want it to seem on TV. Now, just to get it out of the way (in case of angry political correctness here), I have gay male friends, I have nothing against any sexual orientation, couldn't care less.īut I find single girls hanging out in gay bars slightly pathetic. She gave me the name and it's a famous gay club (for men specifically). I've been getting ready and she texts me saying she's not going (she does have a habit of canceling last moment), that she's with a gay friend and that they're going on to a club. We go out together a lot and tonight we were meant to go to a bday party of a friend of hers. One of my closest friends in town is often complaining about difficulties meeting great guys and her sexual frustration. Ok, I'm just looking for some opinions here.